1: If I have nothing good to say, I say nothing. I believe that you can speak things into existance. If you are negative and that's all you spit, that's all you get. But if you think positively and watch what you say, trying to make a difference, then your circle will be positive.
2: Treat people the way I would want to be treated, plus some. If you put out an effort, even if it's not recognized right away or at all, you have made a difference. It can start a string for them, of good and positive, even if it's just holding a door open and smiling. That could effect their day or even the way they greet the next person they come into contact with.
3: Everything happens for a reason. Perhaps it's my crutch, but I have so many life confirming realizations, that I couldn't even begin to count or explain why this rule I trust whole heartedly. I believe there is a reason we meet different people, the reason different things happen to us.. And mainly, it is to learn.
4: Knowledge IS Power. Being stagnant and staying in one place, is only out of fear. People stay away from things and don't persist on changing because of fear. Learning from every situation, every positive or negative thing, can make a big difference. Not only in the way we think, but in the way we act and survive and participate in life.
5: Karma. It may not be karma to the exact definition... But I do believe in one way or another, we do reap what we sow. If we use our bodies or minds or words to tear someone down or to create a negative effect, it will come full circle. Vise Versa with positive.
6: Do not Judge. It is not my job to judge others. I am open to knew people, new hearts and new souls. I can only gather an opinion on whether or not they will better my life or not. It's is only God's job to judge people. I am no better than anyone, nor is anyone better than me. We are all born with the same chances and abilities. Only we are given our own beautiful souls, minds, wants and desires.
About Me...
I am 21, most call me Tara. I come from a small mountain county in western North Carolina (Ashe), Born and Raised. And I fucking love it. I love the scenery, the smells, the fresh air.
I am extremely close to my family. the love of my life is 4 years old, Jameson-Taylor. He smiles through-out the day and lifts me up, gives me a wonderful reason to pursue life at it's more chaotic bounds. He is beauty and love.
I am a bit odd. I skip in circles to my own drum's beat, laugh when inappropriate, say things that don't make sence. But I have a good heart. I wish that people would acknowledge that, and take their wing and shelter me from anger and hurt, instead of trying to pull me down. I am compassionate, and giving. I am a Pisces and fit it to a T. I daydream and let my emotions guide me. I write, and sing, and wished I could fly. Closest to that I'll ever get is on a motorcycle.
I have a hard time, not relating to people, but opening myself for a relationship with most people. Most people are ignorant, manipulative, selfish, and ungiving.
On Gather, I'm Looking For ...:
Whatever... I didn't know really what I was getting into.
You can get ahold of me on YAHOO though by im'ing my sn, gangsterr_mosh.
